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1. Age Play
Age play is for BDSMers who enjoy role-play that involves acting and/or being treated as if you were another age, generally younger than your actual age. It could involve a ‘Daddy’ dominant and his younger submissive, or even touch on the taboo of incest.
Others put on their diapers and go full-on baby for a caregiver. BDSM kinks can enter the scene with spankings, punishment, and other games of dominance and submission.
2. Bondage
Bondage can be as basic or elaborate as you want it to be. Those new to bondage can keep it simple with silk scarves or some form of cuffs. For real aficionados looking for bondage ideas, consider looking into specialized forms of bondage such as shibari rope bondage and mummification.
3. Biting
Biting is another one of those kinks that’s easy to give a go when you’re new to the world of BDSM. Who doesn’t like a little nibble on the ear? However, in a BDSM scene biting is generally more than a nibble, potentially leaving bite marks.
There are plenty of guides to erotic biting online, so be sure to read up before any serious chomping. We’ve had a couple Kinky Confessions involving biting that you can check out here and here.
4. Breast Torture
Breasts are very sensitive and often the focus of varying forms of pain and pleasure during kinky play. Breast torture could involve bondage techniques, wax play, use of suction devices, whipping and flogging, nipple clamps, temperature play, and more.
5. Breath Play
Also known as erotic asphyxiation, breath play involves forms of smothering, choking, masks, and other methods of cutting off oxygen supply. It may involve applying pressure to the carotid arteries, restricting the intake of breath directly, or even going underwater. It can lead to a euphoric lightheadedness and bigger orgasms.
This type of BDSM play is certainly not without controversy as it can be extremely dangerous for obvious reasons. Do not attempt without proper education and safety precautions, and avoid autoerotic asphyxiation altogether.
6. Caning
A form of impact play utilizing a cane or stick, usually made of rattan, and most often applied to the buttocks. Caning as a form of judicial or school discipline was once widespread, and is still legal in some countries.
I can imagine some teacher/student role-play might be a good start for incorporating this kink.
7. Chastity
Chastity play is a game of control, usually between a dominant and their submissive. It might involve a device which restricts the sub’s ability to touch or use their genitals, such as a chastity belt or cock cage. It might be part of one particular scene, or an ongoing game of teasing and denial.
8. Collaring
Playtime aside, a submissive in a D/s relationship will often wear a collar, or be “collared”. The collar symbolizes their submissive status, and may even be as meaningful as a wedding ring is to others, such as in the case of those who engage in collaring ceremonies.
A collar can take many forms, even a simple necklace when it is important to be discreet. Within BDSM play, a collar will usually have a ring that allows for restraint or the addition of a leash.
9. Cock & Ball Torture
The mere thought makes most men cringe, but CBT is more popular among BDSM lovers than you might realize. This kink plays on erotic humiliation, masochism, and the desire to be please and be dominated.
As you can imagine, there are many ways to bust balls. This wiki page has a good listing of the various devices used for cock and ball torture. Other methods include grabbing, kneeing, or trampling, or other BDSM games such electro-stimulation, sounding, wax, and temperature.
10. Cuckoldry
Simply put, a cuckold is the partner of an adulterous woman. But in this day and age, cuckoldry isn’t really about being the victim of a cheating spouse – it is a form of play in which the cuckold is deeply turned on and erotically humiliated by the exploits of his partner with another. He may wait at home feeling a mix of anguish and pleasure, or watch directly without being able to participate.
Some may be surprised to find cuckoldry on our BDSM list, but it strongly involves domination, submission, and humiliation.
11. Cupping
The origins of erotic cupping may go back as far as 3000 years. In this ancient practice, cups are heated before being applied to the skin, causing suction and increased blood flow to the area.
Cupping is less intense than the stimulation of bondage or flogging, but when it’s done to an erogenous zone the sensation and pressure can be powerful.
12. Domination and Submission
Most of the BDSM play types listed here involve some level of dominance and submission. Obviously a big part of BDSM, many kinky sexual games and relationships revolve around this concept.
For instance, a D/s relationship could have a Master and submissive maintaining their Dom and sub roles 24/7, while some couples will just use dominance and submissive behaviour in the bedroom, or choose to switch at times.
13. Edge Play
Edge play is often used in reference to kinks that are considered more risky, such as breath play, knife play, or others that are considered controversial in the kink community . But it’s actually more subjective than that.
Edge play is about pushing the boundaries or “edges” of what a person is comfortable with, or what they are able to handle, regardless of the scene. Because of this, safety precautions and communication before and during are essential.
14. Electrostimulation and Electro-Play
Some kinksters love to bring devices and toys into their BDSM experience, and electrostimulation takes things to the next level.
Electro play basically involves toys or implements that use electricity, including EMS units, violet wants, or even an electric fly swatter!
The sensation is generally kind of prickly and not as painful or scary as you’d expect, but those expectations are part of the mental stimulation of this type of play.
15. Facesitting
There is definitely a level of dominance at work when someone sits upon a partner’s face, whether male or female. Yep, facesitting can go both ways.
Although the enjoyment of face-sitting is not limited to BDSMers, the position lends itself well to a submissive’s pleasuring of their Master or Mistress.
16. Feederism
Those who partake in the feederism lifestyle are called feeders and feedees. In these relationships the woman is often the gainer, and her partner encourages her to gain weight, with varying levels of control.
It’s this idea of control – controlling what another eats and how their body develops – that puts this kink within the realm of .
Feederism is also related to the fat fetish, as the goal is usually to plump the feedee up to a very large size, bringing additional kinks like squashing and gut flopping into play.
17. Fire Play
Temperature play with the excitement, and danger, of flames. Fire play requires a lot of safety precautions and education, as it generally consists of applying fire near or close to the skin.
The form it takes can include a flaming whip or flogger, fire cupping, brief lighting of a flammable fluid on the skin, candle flames, or tapping the skin with a lit torch.
18. Fisting
While fisting isn’t strictly a BDSM practice, it can often be incorporated into a scene due to the pain/pleasure element.
Fisting can be done on either sex as vaginal fisting or anal fisting.
19. Flogging
Flogging, or flagellation, for sexual gratification is a very old kink. While flogging is known as a form of punishment throughout the ages and the world, there is evidence of erotic flogging from as far back as the 1590s.
The sensations vary from mild to very intense, depending on the force and implement used.
20. Foot Worship
Foot worship doesn’t refer strictly to a fetish for feet, but the worship of feet in a submissive manner.
This kink involves an element of humiliation, with the sub being “only good enough” to worship and serve at their Dom/me’s feet. The BDSM foot worshiper submits to the power and beauty of their Master or Mistresses toes, soles, and arches.
21. Genitorture
In the context of BDSM, genitorture is the infliction of pain to the genitals for sexual enhancement. This includes cock and ball torture, listed above.
Female genitorture, or pussy torture, is another variant. As with CBT, there’s a whole range of possible sensations and ways to play. Wax play, electro- stimulation, caning, clamps, and clothes pins are just a few.
22. Gun Play
BDSM play that involves a gun usually falls into what’s considered extreme edge play.
An unloaded gun can be used penetratively in the vagina or mouth, or as a prop for fear and danger play.
The use of a gun during sex is not without controversy and some suggest it never be used. If you must, do consider using a replica gun or toy gun which cannot be loaded and has no moving parts.
23. Hair Pulling
Hair pulling is a great way for those new to BDSM to experiment with light dominance and pain.
Sensations can range from a light grasp at the back of the neck, to harder pulling and use during positions like doggy style.
24. Humiliation Play
Humiliation and/or degradation can be a big part of kinky fantasies and BDSM games. One scenario where erotic humiliation is usually key is cuckolding, but many a submissive slave desires to be humiliated by their Master or Mistress. They desire humiliation for pleasure, and to display an ultimate willingness to please in the context of service and submission.
Methods include verbal humiliation, use in role-play, and public or private belittlement.
25. Ice Play
While ice play has its dangers, it’s a safer choice than fire play for those who want to get started with BDSM temperature play. Think cold water, ice cubes, popsicles, and frozen fruit.
26. Impact Play
Impact play involves striking a person, for the pleasure of one or both parties.
Typical impact play includes popular BDSM activities such as caning, spanking, slapping, whipping and flogging. Punching, kicking and face slapping can also be part of consensual impact play.
A great range of sensations are possible depending on the implement used and the level of force.
27. Knife Play
Knife play and cutting as part of BDSM is another kink that is considered risky, but between consenting partners who have done their homework it can be highly erotic.
Considered a form of edge play or “fear play”, playing with knives can be highly stimulating both psychologically and physically.
Tools might involve knives, swords, or daggers, and could involve drawing blood which adds to the risk.
28. Mummification
For some, being restricted to the point of being unable to move is the ultimate submission and turn-on.
Mummification is a form of bondage and can be done with various wrappings including medical tapes, plastic wrap, or even using a body bag. Being wrapped up like a mummy falls within sensory deprivation, particularly if the one being wrapped is also unable to see.
29. Needle Play
Needle play is basically sticking a needle through the skin of someone else.
Medical needles are the only ones that should be used as they are sterile and sharp. Piercing play, (as described here at Deviance & Desire), is a popular variant to medical needle play.
Fear, pain, dominance, submission, and S&M, are all at play here.
30. Nose Torture
Nose torture, or nose bondage, can be employed during BDSM play and punishment as a form of humiliation and/or pain.
In traditional Japanese nose torture, a nose-hook is applied to pull the submissive’s nose open and upward, either lightly or more forcefully.
Other ways to torture the nose include wax play, clothespins or clamps, nose caning, or simply pulling and twisting.
31. Orgasm Denial
Orgasm denial can be a fun BDSM game, especially for those who like to see their submissive squirm! Frequently, this type of play involves continual arousal, either physical or mental, without being able to experience release. The orgasm may be put off until it’s denial is no longer bearable, or denied entirely.
Considered a form of power play, it can also be used to prolong a scene or encounter, and may involve bondage or not.
Many ways to play this one including the outer limit of chastity play.
32. Orgasm Torture
Orgasm denial is one end of a spectrum. At the other end is orgasm torture, or forced orgasms.
You know when you’ve had your orgasm and you’re simply too sensitive to bare any more stimulation? One form of orgasm torture is when a Dom forces their sub to cum again and again. Often refusing to let the submissive touch themselves, the Dom is in complete control of the orgasms and when, and if, a climax occurs.
33. Pegging
Pegging is a great way for a Domme to turn the tables on a male sub, bending him over and entering him anally from behind.
When part of BDSM play, pegging play can be a very effective form of submission and/or humiliation, and gets even more interesting when combined with bondage and anal training.
Strap-on sex and the strapon fantasy are becoming so popular that there are even pegging dating sites now.
34. Pet Play
Here kitty kitty! Owner and pet play, animal role-play, human pets, all refer to BDSM play in which a submissive plays the part of an animal for their Dom.
The fun of pet play is that it brings up many opportunities to explore BDSM. Bondage and confinement through use of leashes and caging, kneeling and crawling before your master, treats and punishments, plus training.
35. Piss Play
Piss play is one of those kinks that fits in nicely with BDSM play, as domination and submission are clearly in effect when someone pisses on their partner’s body, or in their mouth even.
An interest in “golden showers” is actually very common, and with some safety precautions can easily be incorporated into a BDSM scene.
36. Pony Play
This could easily be considered part of pet play, but as it can get quite elaborate and has it’s own set of sub-niches, pony play is considered a BDSM play type in it’s own right.
We’ve written about pony play in Confessions of a Kinky Pony Play Girl, but I also found an excellent resource in cPony.com. It’s a site that hasn’t been updated recently, but there is a lot there to explore including differences between cart ponies, show ponies, riding ponies, veterinarian play and the various pony tack and gear used.
37. Pussy Worship
This is exactly what it sounds like; getting down on your knees to worship at the pussy of your beloved Domme. How you worship is likely up to your Mistress, but this type of subservience can be incorporated into all levels of kinky relationships.
From light massage and oral – to face-sitting while in bondage, vagina worship is wide-ranging.
38. Rape Fantasy
Common among both women and men, the fantasy of being forced to have sex or engage in sexual acts is called rape play or forced sex role-play.
In attempts to understand the fantasy, many have ascribed reasoning such as guilt or repression to why someone would enjoy this kink. But simply, consensual rape play is yet another game of dominance and submission, involving force and role-play, and sometimes bondage. In a kink context, it is ALWAYS consensual.
39. Role-Play
Here at Kink Lovers we love role-play and coming up with new ideas for BDSM games and scenes. Role-playing simply involves acting out a role, or imagining your BDSM play is happening within a particular “scene”.
Classic examples include doctor and patient, officer and criminal, teacher and student, or even animal and owner as with pet play. You can see that these role-play ideas all consist of an authoritative Dom role, and a submissive role – ripe for further BDSM games. Role-play is a great way to let your imagination run wild!
40. Scat Play
Those into scat play are excited about incorporating feces into their sexual experiences.
As a fetish, it’s technically known as coprophilia, and coprophagia refers to the practice of eating your own or a partner’s excrement.
It’s a risky one because feces often contain bacteria and possibly parasites, but there are “toilet slaves” out there who are very eager to please a dominant in this way.
41. Sado-Masochism
S&M is a broad category of play. It basically encompasses any kind of play that involves sadism and masochism.
Sadism is the sexual enjoyment of inflicting pain, humiliation, or suffering upon a another. Masochism is the other side of the coin, in which a person derives sexual pleasure from their own pain. As you can see, these 2 serve as the motivation for many a BDSM encounter.
42. Sensation Play
Tickling, spanking, temperature play, biting, scratching, sounding.. any form of kinky play that incorporates the deliberate use of sensation falls into this category.
Whether light or intense, sensation play is a way to explore enhancement of the senses, erotic anticipation, and a whole gamut of physical experiences.
43. Sensory Deprivation
Sensory deprivation play is the act of “removing” one or more of a person’s senses, so that the remaining senses are heightened.
Typically this can be done using a blindfold or earplugs. While blindfolded, a person may have an enhanced experience of touch, smell, and hearing, so this type of play pairs well with sensation play.
It also creates anticipation and excitement when a sub can’t see or hear what their Master is going to do next!
44. Self BDSM
Most forms of play on our BDSM list revolve around what one partner can do to another, or sexual games that can be played together. But not every kinky person has a play-mate at their disposal and some would prefer to play alone anyways.
Solo BDSM and self-bondage encompass ways that someone could safely experiment and enjoy BDSM play on their own.
45. Sounding
Sounding involves putting a thin metal rod, called a sound, into the urethra. Urethral sounding isn’t as painful as it sounds, and can be quite pleasurable as there are many nerve endings within the urethra. The sound can even touch the prostate which can be orgasmic.
46. Spanking
We all know what spanking is and probably learned about them from a young age. However, erotic spanking goes well beyond punishment and is where pleasure is added to pain through a variety of means.
Paddles, crops, open-hand, over-the-knee (OTK spanking), light or extreme – there is is so much within this type of impact play.
In fact, spanking is so popular and we have written so many spanking articles, that a spanking hub of all
47. Suspension Bondage
Suspension bondage is advanced BDSM. A submissive can be put in bondage and suspended fully or partially, and in this way are put into a very helpless state.
Practitioners of BDSM suspension must know what they are doing, as it can be very intense and comes with risks. A couple good resources online for those who’d like to learn about suspension and bondage in general are the Duchy and Rope Connections.
48. Tickle Torture
Getting tickled when you are tied up and unable to squirm away can be delightful or absolute torture depending on the circumstances. In fact, tickling was used as an actual form of torture in ancient China, particularly on nobles because it leaves no marks.
49. Wax Play
Wax play combines fire, heat, pain, suspense, and anticipation. What’s not to love?
This kink involves dripping wax from a candle onto a submissive’s skin. Depending on the candle, this type of temperature play can range from a warming sensation to extremely hot. Burns can result so education and precaution are important, as always.
50. Whipping Play
Last but not least on our BDSM list. Whipping can be an incredibly intense form of impact play. Great care, via education and practice, must be taken before incorporating whips and BDSM techniques into your play as it can leave welts or even cut the skin.
But once you know what you are doing? Your sub can be standing with their hands bound above as you bull whip strikes and slithers around their body, or you apply a quick snap of a flicker whip across their bottom.
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