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1. Age Play
Age play is for BDSMers who enjoy role-play that involves acting and/or being treated as if you were another age, generally younger than your actual age. It could involve a ‘Daddy’ dominant and his younger submissive, or even touch on the taboo of incest.
Others put on their diapers and go full-on baby for a caregiver. BDSM kinks can enter the scene with spankings, punishment, and other games of dominance and submission.
2. Bondage
Bondage can be as basic or elaborate as you want it to be. Those new to bondage can keep it simple with silk scarves or some form of cuffs. For real aficionados looking for bondage ideas, consider looking into specialized forms of bondage such as shibari rope bondage and
The beauty of shibari rope bondage.
3. Bitingu
Biting is another one of those kinks that’s easy to give a go when you’re new to the world of BDSM. Who doesn’t like a little nibble on the ear? However, in a BDSM scene biting is generally more than a nibble, potentially leaving bite marks.
There are plenty of guides to erotic biting online, so be sure to read up before any serious chomping. We’ve had a couple Kinky Confessions involving biting that you can check out here and here.
4. Breast Torture
Breasts are very sensitive and often the focus of varying forms of pain and pleasure during kinky play. Breast torture could involve bondage techniques, wax play, use of suction devices, whipping and flogging, nipple clamps, temperature play, and more.
Here are 6 Kinky Breast Play Tips for those just starting out.
5. Breath Play
Also known as erotic asphyxiation, breath play involves forms of smothering, choking, masks, and other methods of cutting off oxygen supply. It may involve applying pressure to the carotid arteries, restricting the intake of breath directly, or even going underwater. It can lead to a euphoric lightheadedness and bigger orgasms.
This type of BDSM play is certainly not without controversy as it can be extremely dangerous for obvious reasons. Do not attempt without proper education and safety precautions, and avoid autoerotic asphyxiation altogether.
Breath play for advanced BDSM lovers only.
6. Caning
A form of impact play utilizing a cane or stick, usually made of rattan, and most often applied to the buttocks. Caning as a form of judicial or school discipline was once widespread, and is still legal in some countries.
I can imagine some teacher/student role-play might be a good start for incorporating this kink. If you’d like to give it a try read our article BDSM Caning for Beginners.
7. Chastity
Chastity play is a game of control, usually between a dominant and their submissive. It might involve a device which restricts the sub’s ability to touch or use their genitals, such as a chastity belt or cock cage. It might be part of one particular scene, or an ongoing game of teasing and denial.
For more details, see Tips and Tricks for Chastity Sessions.
8. Collaring
Playtime aside, a submissive in a D/s relationship will often wear a collar, or be “collared”. The collar symbolizes their submissive status, and may even be as meaningful as a wedding ring is to others, such as in the case of those who engage in collaring ceremonies.
A collar can take many forms, even a simple necklace when it is important to be discreet. Within BDSM play, a collar will usually have a ring that allows for restraint or the addition of a leash.
Submissive woman with leash and collar.
9. Cock & Ball Torture
The mere thought makes most men cringe, but CBT is more popular among BDSM lovers than you might realize. This kink plays on erotic humiliation, masochism, and the desire to be please and be dominated.
As you can imagine, there are many ways to bust balls. This wiki page has a good listing of the various devices used for cock and ball torture. Other methods include grabbing, kneeing, or trampling, or other BDSM games such electro-stimulation, sounding, wax, and temperature.
10. Cuckoldry
Simply put, a cuckold is the partner of an adulterous woman. But in this day and age, cuckoldry isn’t really about being the victim of a cheating spouse – it is a form of play in which the cuckold is deeply turned on and erotically humiliated by the exploits of his partner with another. He may wait at home feeling a mix of anguish and pleasure, or watch directly without being able to participate.
Some may be surprised to find cuckoldry on our BDSM list, but it strongly involves domination, submission, and humiliation.
Looking for cuckolding play partners? See How to Find Cuckold Couples and Bulls.
Watching her with a bull is a cuckold’s delight.
11. Cupping
The origins of erotic cupping may go back as far as 3000 years. In this ancient practice, cups are heated before being applied to the skin, causing suction and increased blood flow to the area.
Cupping is less intense than the stimulation of bondage or flogging, but when it’s done to an erogenous zone the sensation and pressure can be powerful.
12. Domination and Submission
Most of the BDSM play types listed here involve some level of dominance and submission. Obviously a big part of BDSM, many kinky sexual games and relationships revolve around this concept.
For instance, a D/s relationship could have a Master and submissive maintaining their Dom and sub roles 24/7, while some couples will just use dominance and submissive behaviour in the bedroom, or choose to switch at times.
For some Dom/sub play and bondage ideas, see Domination-Submission Games for Kinky Couples.
Domination and Submission are at the heart of BDSM play.
13. Edge Play
Edge play is often used in reference to kinks that are considered more risky, such as breath play, knife play, or others that are considered controversial in the kink community . But it’s actually more subjective than that.
Edge play is about pushing the boundaries or “edges” of what a person is comfortable with, or what they are able to handle, regardless of the scene. Because of this, safety precautions and communication before and during are essential.
If this sounds interesting, here’s a good article on edge play with imput from experienced Dommes, from the Daily Dot.
14. Electrostimulation and Electro-Play
Some kinksters love to bring devices and toys into their BDSM experience, and electrostimulation takes things to the next level.
Electro play basically involves toys or implements that use electricity, including EMS units, violet wants, or even an electric fly swatter!
The sensation is generally kind of prickly and not as painful or scary as you’d expect, but those expectations are part of the mental stimilation of this type of play. Read: Incorporating Electricity into Advanced Kink Play.
Electrify your senses.
15. Facesitting
There is definitely a level of dominance at work when someone sits upon a partner’s face, whether male or female. Yep, facesitting can go both ways.
Although the enjoyment of face-sitting is not limited to BDSMers, the position lends itself well to a submissive’s pleasuring of their Master or Mistress.
Read Tia’s post, The Fine Art of Facesitting for some woman-on-top face-sitting tips.
16. Feederism
Those who partake in the feederism lifestyle are called feeders and feedees. In these relationships the woman is often the gainer, and her partner encourages her to gain weight, with varying levels of control.
It’s this idea of control – controlling what another eats and how their body develops – that puts this kink within the realm of .
Feederism is also related to the fat fetish, as the goal is usually to plump the feedee up to a very large size, bringing additional kinks like squashing and gut flopping into play.
Stuff your face in the name of kink.
17. Fire Play
Temperature play with the excitement, and danger, of flames. Fire play requires a lot of safety precautions and education, as it generally consists of applying fire near or close to the skin.
The form it takes can include a flaming whip or flogger, fire cupping, brief lighting of a flammable fluid on the skin, candle flames, or tapping the skin with a lit torch.
Fire Fetish: 4 Ways to Play with Fire offers a good introduction.
18. Fisting
While fisting isn’t strictly a BDSM practice, it can often be incorporated into a scene due to the pain/pleasure element.
Fisting can be done on either sex as vaginal fisting or anal fisting. Guys, here are our tips for getting fisted by a woman.
If you are new to fisting and would like to try, read our introductory article Fisting: What You Need to Know.
Do you enjoy a good flogging?
19. Flogging
Flogging, or flagellation, for sexual gratification is a very old kink. While flogging is known as a form of punishment throughout the ages and the world, there is evidence of erotic flogging from as far back as the 1590s.
The sensations vary from mild to very intense, depending on the force and implement used.
For more on floggers and how to get started, see Flogging for Beginners.
20. Foot Worship
Foot worship doesn’t refer strictly to a fetish for feet, but the worship of feet in a submissive manner.
This kink involves an element of humiliation, with the sub being “only good enough” to worship and serve at their Dom/me’s feet. The BDSM foot worshiper submits to the power and beauty of their Master or Mistresses toes, soles, and arches.
Want to show your woman how much you love and worship her feet? Start with these tame suggestions for worshipping her tender tootsies: Foot Worship: 4 Ways to Adore Her Feet.
21. Genitorture
In the context of BDSM, genitorture is the infliction of pain to the genitals for sexual enhancement. This includes cock and ball torture, listed above.
Female genitorture, or pussy torture, is another variant. As with CBT, there’s a whole range of possible sensations and ways to play. Wax play, electro- stimulation, caning, clamps, and clothes pins are just a few.
Sometimes pain IS pleasure.
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